Think about the difference here. Small packages can be frustrating. I know, like you’ve taken your time getting ready, smelling good, mentally engaging, etc. You’re hot and bothered, throbbing, pulsating and stuff. He gets there, butters you up real good, most likely with great attention to important details…and then…you don’t feel a thing. Girrlllll! You want him out! Maybe you can find a suitable replacement on short notice. Yeah that’s small. But not that big is another matter altogether. Totally different ballpark.
I’ll put it to you like my girlfriend put it the other day. Say you’re used to driving a Honda Accord, and you’re mean with it. Whipping in and out of places, in complete control. You own the road in your sedan. It’s not that big, but it’s not small, and it’s perfect for you. There’s nothing you can’t do with it. You love it. You own it. You’re in complete control.
But then an opportunity presents itself. You don’t mind a challenge, so you get behind the wheel of an Escalade. ESV though. Mercy, it’s big, and powerful, and it’s right there for YOU, and it’s so beautiful! And you think you can hang because you’re a driving machine. Can’t park the damn thing though, cause it’s huge, and you’re not used to all that. It’s a real problem.
So now you’re sweating, thinking extra hard about why you can’t make this thing fit, and you’re tearing up stuff, and it’s just not working! You get all upset, he’s looking at you like “thought you said you were a grown ass woman…,” so eventually you just get out of there. It’s no use. The damage would be so costly.
You know you got skills, though. Back to the Honda you go, happy as you can be. Whipping, dipping, swerving and all that. You OWN that right there. You can park it wherever you like. Zero problem. There is no shame in staying in your lane, girl. Stick with what you know. The trick is you gotta work your way up to that next skill level. It takes practice, and patience, and a partner who is willing to learn with you. Honestly though, everything is not for everybody.
Some of us are just not built for the big body rides. I’m being completely serious right now. Literally, a woman with an inverted cervix will need to make adjustments in positioning and work toward educating and trusting her partner. That is, if she herself is educated on her own body. Knowing he has a good understanding of how her body works, and that he can avoid running into the guardrail will be key to a satisfying sexual experience. Trust me, it can be done. Mastered my Escalade in no time. ;-P
Men swear they know everything, but I’ve met a few who are completely oblivious to the inverted cervix, and some who just don’t give a damn about whether she enjoys the experience or not. Banging, busting, beating and digging still flow freely from their mouths, like it’s attractive or something. Ew. Then too, collaborating may not be something either of you is willing to do for this particular series of transactions, so it’s possible you’ll never get the hang of this ride. Yeah, I said transactions, as opposed to an actual relationship–but we’ll talk about that another time.
Be the master of your ride girlfriend. Ain’t no need in going for a ride you can’t enjoy. Forget what you heard–size does matter.
From the Mind of:
Tonya D Floyd, Author/Host
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